Monday, July 23, 2012

Things I learned from a horse...


  • Sometimes it’s time to quit trotting and go for the canter.  Don’t let fear hold you back.
  • Set your goal and keep working at it.  If you had started 5 years ago it would be done by now.
  • You have to really work at it.  That may mean some extra training in a class that is out of your comfort zone. 
  • Having patient people (and horses) mentor you will help you reach your goals. 
  • Sometimes you’ve got to ride the difficult one.  It will stretch you and improve you.
  • Put a smile on someone’s face.  Lift their burden and make their day with your acts of kindness.
  • Be nice.  Sometime in your life the shoe will be on the other foot.
  • There are lots of opinions out there about how to do things…figure out what works in your situation.     
  • Be positive.  You can do it!
  • Cheerful, willing workers are appreciated.  Be one!    
  • Be humble enough to ask for help.
  • Ask questions.  Let people teach you by being teachable. 
  • Stay balanced. 
  • Think of your goal as an investment in your life. 
  • If you fall off get back on. 
  • Don’t be stubborn as a mule.
  • Sometimes it’s good to kick up your heels and feel your oats!

from the Honeymooners...

Here's a great little nugget of truth...
Josh called me after his honeymoon with his sweet wife, Michelle.  They had a wonderful trip.  Josh told me that he and Michelle had rented a bicycle built for two to ride around Mackinaw Island.  He said "At first we had trouble with it (the bike) but then we got in sync and got the hang of it".    Relationships are like that too.  Marriage takes time, work, and trial and error to create a smooth running marriage.  Congratulations Josh and Michelle... may you happily ride on into your future!

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Taking correction... Part 2

... you have to read this one slowly:

Best is the man who can himself advise;
He too is good who hearkens to the wise;

Who, himself being witless, will not heed
Another's wisdom, is worthless indeed.

Hesiod
( c. 720 B.C.)

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Taking correction...

Taking correction is not easy to do.  None of us like to hear about where we need to improve.  However it is an important thing to listen to the wisdom of others.

"Timothy, my son, I give you this instruction in keeping with the prophecies one made about you, so that by following them you may fight the good fight, holding on to faith and a good conscience.  Some have rejected these and so have shipwrecked their faith".
1 Timothy 1:18-19

Any thoughts on how to be heard when you see a shipwreck happening?

Make someone's day.

I recently went to Wal-Mart bought a huge cart load of stuff.  I got in line behind a acquitance of mine who also had a huge load of stuff.  We chatted while we unloaded our carts... it was a lenghtly process.  After I had unloaded my stuff I then realized that the poor guy behind me had less than ten items in his cart and a very patient 2 year-old in the cart.  I quickly apologized.   He patiently answered that it was OK and so on.  When I finished my order I took (with his permission) his milk and put it on my bill.  He thanked me and I thanked him for his patience.  As I pushed my cart away I over heard him and the clerk saying" I've never seen that happen before".  I smiled... it made my day.

I cannot take credit for this random act of kindess.  I actually learned this from a youth minister, Pastor Mike.  Pastor Mike was known and loved for his great road trips.  When Pastor Mike unloaded about a million teenagers at McDonalds he often bought the people who rolled in behind our group their meal.  I always admired his consideration.  To me that is what being a Christian is about.  Others before self.  Thanks Pastor Mike for teaching me!

Please share random acts of kindness here:

Thursday, June 28, 2012

Relationships

Relationships have to be nurtured.

Relationships take...
Time
Grace (none of us are prefect)
Patience
Effort
Talk
Money
Kindness

When we don't nuture relationships ... well-- they just die. 
How do you stay in touch?

"Fear of the Lord"

When reading my Bible I have always found the phase "fear of the Lord" rather confusing.  This phase is found frequently in scripture.  We as Christians are admonished to "fear the Lord".  Is this the same kind of fear that we feel when we are running from danger?  We are also taught that God cares about us as a loving Father.  I could never quite resolve these two ideas in my mind.

Now I think I understand.  Let me explain.  "Fear of the Lord" is submitting to God's sovernity over our lives.  It is realizing that God runs the show and we must be respectful of that fact.  EVERYTHING we have and achieve is because God's grace has allowed it to happen.

Example 1:  A person achieves a Olympic gold metal in  a race.  That person achieved that goal by the grace of God.  God provided the air the person breathes, their large lung capacity, their long legs, and a strong heart.  The person can set the goal, work hard, have a great coach and the mental outlook to withstand the pressure but the goal cannot be achieved without the gifts God provides to accomplish that goal.

Example 2:  We all live by God's provision.  Everything we have and need is dug out of the ground (mining), in the air, or grown.  The chair you are sitting on is made of metal (mined), wood (grown) and plastic (soybean product).  The food we eat, the energy that is produced,  the tools we use, and the products we make are all from the hand of God.

Example 3:  God has set the world up to support mankind's endeavors.   The water cycle, decomposition ( the world would be a mess without rot), growing seasons, the perfection of the placement of the sun (not too close-we would fry; not to far-we would freeze).  It's easy to think that we are so wise, talented and hard working that we achieved so much when really we are just working with the big plan that God put into place.

When this basic respect for God's authority and sovernity is lost- disrespect for all authority is gone and society suffers the consquences.

Parents should submit to God.  Parental leadership in this area is vital to the future of our society.
Children should submit to their parents guidance.
Students should obey their teachers and the school rules.

Submission to authority is a choice.  People cannot be forced to "fear the Lord". 

Teachers deal with this everyday in the classroom.  Students have no "fear" of any consquences if they do not follow school rules because their parent will go and defend the child's bad behavior and "get them off the hook".

The authority of police and all leaders is called into question.  Judges fear for their lives,  policemen are frequently shot in the line of duty.

"Fear of the Lord" is fundmental for an orderly society.

What are your ideas for restoring a culture of respect to our society?